Facebook settings can confuse even a Zuckerberg

Posted By on December 26, 2012

zuckerbergfamily_dec2012If you are confused over the privacy settings on social networking sites, particularly Facebook, you are not alone. Short suggestion: Assume everything you post is public … because it can certainly end up that way … just ask Randi Zuckerberg.

As networks grow and friends connect to other friends, eventually the images and comments you make (especially embarrassing ones) will be shared beyond your intended circle of friends … or is that a trademarked Google+ term? Whatever. The point is that photos can be copied and reposted and even those friends with the best of intentions may have other friends connected through a closer group sharing private moments, etc.

Randi Zuckerberg, formerly exec at Facebook, posted a feisty tweet Tuesday night scolding a Twitter follower for reposting a picture that Randi had originally published on Facebook.

"@cschweitz not sure where you got this photo. I posted it on FB. You reposting it to Twitter is way uncool," Randi said in her tweet.

The Twitter follower, Callie Schweitzer, quickly responded.

"@randizuckerberg I’m just your subscriber and this was top of my newsfeed. Genuinely sorry but it came up in my feed and seemed public," Schweitzer said in a tweet.

Randi then replied via Twitter that the reason Schweitzer could view the picture was probably because she was also friends with Randi’s other sister, so the follower could see tagged images of her.

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A subdued Christmas for 2012, but it is not over yet

Posted By on December 26, 2012

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We drove up to Columbus and enjoyed “catering” a Christmas dinner at Katelyn’s fiancé Drew’s house. The two of them (both in their residency) were working the night rotations … Katelyn just off a 24 hour stint at Nationwide and Drew his week of 13 hour nights at OSU.  We have postponed our family gift exchange until they drive to Cincinnati on Friday, but we enjoyed being together for a few hours just the same. (thanks for letting us set up at your place Drew)

RichTaylorAsus121225Besides dinner, we noticed that Santa left a gift for Taylor under the tree on Christmas eve … another electronic gadget. This one a new notebook computer that supposedly he needs in order to work on GIS projects that will help him land a job; it will be a stressful year ahead for Taylor as he enters the work-a-day world. Of course I’m probably getting ahead of things as he would rather enjoy focus on the  final semester of college and the associated good times. 
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The predicted blizzard warning held off and driving was not a problem, but I’m glad to be home now as the snow is coming down. Hopefully not too much, but I’m thinking about putting the snowblower on the John Deere just be be ready.

While rummaging through my desk draw I found a old pre-kids Christmas photo (1985??) to test the new Epson Workforce 545 “all in one” Fax/Scanner/Printer device – it was archival material and figured I’d post it here … and maybe to Facebook too?

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Back row: Chris, Dad H, Mom H, Ann, Jerry, Middle row: Mark, Brenda, Lynda, Aaron,
Front row: Ben, Justin, David and Rich. (click for larger)

Merry Christmas – our slightly smaller 2012 Christmas tree

Posted By on December 25, 2012

christmastree2012Our rapidly desquamating Christmas tree (photo) is barely holding on to its needles in hope of “A visit from St. Nicholas” on Christmas eve –although even bringing up the poem now known as “‘Twas the Night Before Christmas,” is an invitation of literary debate. No thanks, I’m tired of debates after 2012!

The well known poem is sometimes credited to Henry Livingston Jr.  but usually thought to have been penned by Clement Clarke Moore in 1823. Whoever originally wrote and subsequently published the story, it is responsible for our American tradition of Santa Claus, his image and the reindeer. Just for the fun of it, do you know the names of the eight original reindeer who pulled Santa’s sleigh full of presents? (I’m excluding Rudolph since he didn’t arrive for another 100+ years)

Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen,
Comet, Cupid, Dunder and Blixen.*

*Dunder became Donder (or Donner)
and Blixen became Blitzen.

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‘Twas the Night Before Christmas 
or Account of a Visit from St. Nicholas by Major Henry Livingston Jr.
(previously believed to be by Clement Clarke Moore)

‘Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse;
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,
In hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there;

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads;
And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled down for a long winter’s nap,

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash,
Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow
Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below,
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But a miniature sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer,

With a little old driver, so lively and quick,
I knew in a moment it must be St. Nick.
More rapid than eagles his coursers they came,
And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name;

"Now, DASHER! now, DANCER! now, PRANCER and VIXEN!
On, COMET! on CUPID! on, DONDER and BLITZEN!
To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!
Now dash away! dash away! dash away all!"

As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,
When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky,
So up to the house-top the coursers they flew,
With the sleigh full of toys, and St. Nicholas too.

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof
The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.
As I drew in my hand, and was turning around,
Down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,
And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot;
A bundle of toys he had flung on his back,
And he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.

His eyes — how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!
His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,
And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow;

The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth,
And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath;
He had a broad face and a little round belly,
That shook, when he laughed like a bowlful of jelly.

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf,
And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself;
A wink of his eye and a twist of his head,
Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread;

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work,
And filled all the stockings; then turned with a jerk,
And laying his finger aside of his nose,
And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose;

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,
And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, ere he drove out of sight,
"HAPPY CHRISTMAS TO ALL, AND TO ALL A GOOD-NIGHT!"

Below is one of four known handwritten copies of the poem from Clement Clarke Moore (New York Historical Society)click image for larger.

‘A Visit From St. Nicholas’

How long before all cars are hybrids?

Posted By on December 24, 2012

After catching up on a bit of automotive reading, I realized that improvements propulsion for cars is moving us toward hybrid vehicles and that there will come a day futurehybridcarswhen “almost” all our day to day vehicles will have some sort of hybrid drive … be they battery electric or some other booster technology.

Mentioning “hybrid” I assume most think of the Toyota Prius and the Hybrid Synergy Drive, but there are other manufacturers with similar technology inching improvements year to year. In a few short years, every internal combustion car will see its efficiency improved by adopting some energy saving measure or measures. Some perhaps just enough to cycle the stop-start of the engine permitting accessories such as air conditioning and electronics to continue to run without burning fuel. Others “may” use compressed air, a spinning flywheel or wound spring to provide a start-up or acceleration boost. Advance capacitors may eventually do the same for the electric hybrid reducing the size of battery packs and the associated weight issue … currently one major drawback of EV and plug-in hybrids. Battery degradation is another major issue facing manufacturers as who wants to be hauling hundreds of pounds of battery when the charge efficiency drops? (link)

Cost and vehicle life is another issue, but cars are capable of far more miles in a lifetime than they were just a couple generations ago. My dad mentioned how he would sell cars when they neared the 70,000 mile mark as I noted that I rarely replace with cars with less than 200,000 miles nowadays. Car bodies no longer corrode as they once did and “rust-buckets” are rare on the road today. hybridsynergydriveI recall patch mufflers continually when I was younger, not to mention using baling wire to hold bumpers in place and welding new metal with plenty of Bondo on fenders and rocker panels. Longer lifespans offset the higher price tag and become a factor in keeping a car on the road – it justifies the more complex “drive” components associated with hybrid systems.

As for performance, there isn’t any reason to assume “just because a car is a hybrid” that we have to give up on driver enjoyment. I suspect that we’ll eventually be able to “hot rod” (aka: computer tweak) high performance hybrid vehicles into desirable driver’s car – well perhaps not the Prius?
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Hopefully for those of us who enjoy cars with a “little” more personality and driving appeal, we’ll see more attempts like the Volkswagen Jetta hybrid where the designers were unwilling to give up sporty handling and performance just to gain efficiency. Maybe VW’s next hybrid will also be a TDI diesel? That would be nice, although well behind another European automaker (Volvo V60 Diesel plug-in Hybrid).

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Ads with antelope and night vision goggles

Posted By on December 23, 2012

A WSJ article highlighted the best and worst advertising for 2012, but didn't mention my current favorite – the Geico commercial featuring two antelope wearing night vision goggles. I just can help smiling and turning up the volume.

Modify old tools for special uses – sharp wedge tipped pliers

Posted By on December 22, 2012

Here’s a tool tip (pun intended) right up my alley from a Cruising World reader … sharper-wedge shaped needle nose pliers (used for pulling staples, etc). I regularly modify cheap screwdrivers for a variety of project … and will add this modification to one of my junker pliers.

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It feels awkward returning to normal after mom’s death

Posted By on December 21, 2012

It has been a quick couple of days for my dad, brother and me in finalizing the desires of my mom for her funeral. She was organized and detailed right to the end and it was probably a good thing because she was leaving this funeralflower121219planning behind to three “men.” We did our best mom … and hopefully satisfactorily honored your wishes. (link to obituary)

Of course we had help from the funeral director, pastors at church, the many friends who prepared the dinner after the service. The neighbors who bought food to dad from up the street and of course our familyBrenda and Claire, Katelyn and Keira and Taylor and Jaben; they were a big help too. Physically and emotionally we were embraced by our extended family and the many friends who came to visit and offered their condolences. I would like to thank them all … my mom had a wonderful life.

For me, I am not in mourning at all. I’m thankful my mom is no longer in pain and am appreciative for all the time I had to talked with her, especially in these last few months. It made it easier knowing she was ready to leave and am comforted too that mom knew Christ and had faith that He had prepared a place for her. In the end, her peaceful passing was mercifully and her legacy immense. (and I say that with meaning since she provided both my brother and I with a “Legacy Box” and notebook with a lifetime of notes … really a journal. We could not have asked for more)

I love you mom and will miss you.

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Taylor, Brenda, Dad C, Katelyn and Rich (12/19/2012)

I am free

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free,
I’m following paths God made for me
I took his hand I heard him call
Then turned, and bid farewell to all

I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to sing, to play
Tasks left undone must stay that way
I found my peace… at close of play

And if my parting left a void
Then fill it with remembered joy
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss
Ah yes, these things I too will miss.

Be not burdened… deep with sorrow
I wish you sunshine of tomorrow
My life’s been full I’ve savoured much
Good friends, good times
A loved one’s touch

Perhaps my time seemed all too brief
Don’t lengthen it now with grief
Lift up your hearts and share with me,
God wants me now… He set me free.

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12/21/2012

It was a cold rainy day to have the funeral, but it was before the ice and snow for those who traveled. My daughter sent me a couple photos after leaving the church and I wanted to archive at least one.

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My mom’s struggle is over

Posted By on December 17, 2012

I’m sending a quick personal post from my phone to update those who have politely sent messages concerning my mom. I wanted to update that she passed away peacefully this morning — 12/17. My brother and I will be with my Dad to finalize the funeral plans at Cromes Funeral Home in Sidney Ohio. Thanks for the thoughtful messages these past few weeks.

EDIT: Not much time to post (nor do I feel like it), but since I’m proofing my mom’s obituary I thought I would add the link.

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A wonderful bridal shower this weekend for my daughter

Posted By on December 16, 2012

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I’ve been spending most of my time by my mother’s bedside (previous post), but wanted to share a little cheer as well. My daughter Katelyn had a wonderful bridal shower hosted by the friends of her future mother-in-law (Barb Oostra) in Toledo on Saturday. They enjoyed brunch and presents at the Inverness Club and the single word response from Katelyn when she called me me was: “amazing.”  When I told Brenda, she asked … “what does that mean?” — I think it means Katelyn was very happy!

On my wife’s return to Cincinnati, she stopped to see my mom and detailed the entire affair down to the “sparkling shoes” Katelyn was wearing and a relayed message from  my cousin Diane who is very close with my mom (thanks for representing our side of the family in Toledo). I know my mom would have been pleased – just wish she could have been there.
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Also … I wanted to thank my fellow “outlaw” Lynda for driving to the shower from New York … we very much appreciated the long trip and that she made it a priority to be there. Thank you Lynda.

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Katelyn and Diane Mears   |   Lynda Howard and Katelyn

Alone with my mom – reading and thinking

Posted By on December 15, 2012

This Thursday thru Saturday has been challenging for my dad, brother and me. My mom, who has been in hospice care the last few months, is now in the "active dying" momc121215stage according to the nurse. Her vital signs have been up and down the last couple of days and we’ve been trading round the clock shifts to be by her bedside, as well as plenty of overlap. It seems like there should be something more that I could be doing for the one who nurtured me into this world?

The nursing care is most appreciated as they are keeping mom in a drug induced unconscious state for the most part, yet it is still uncomfortable to watch and listen to the human body struggling to shut down. For those who make end of life care a career calling and to compassionately assist family through the process, I’m grateful you exist. Mom is in compassionate hands. One nurse in particular has been there for much of my 5PM to 5AM shifts and she has been very kind and loving … thank you Jane.

As has been said by those who are assured in their salvation in heaven, “it is not death that we fear, it is dying.” My prayer is that God would find it in His mercy to take mom home gently (but a little quicker) and keep her from suffering … and to bring peace to those around her.

Those who have concluded that Jesus is who he proclaimed to be … and have accepted Jesus as their personal Savior … have little to fear from death.

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father’s hand.”  John 10:27-29

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