Obituary: Alton Gwynn Pitts (1926-2022) and finding the right words to comfort a friend on the passing of his father
Posted By RichC on November 3, 2022
Although it was not unexpected, my long time friend Jeff‘s father passed away last week. It was the way we all would want to die … "peacefully in our sleep at home."
My memories of Alton Pitts are few since he lived in Florida, but the few I have are of kindness. I first met him when I was in college with Jeff and a bunch of us guys heading to Florida over our Christmas break (our annual "thing"). We were invited to spend a couple nights with Jeff at his dad’s St John’s River condo rather than our usual camping. Very nice and far more comfortable. While the other guys headed off to Bush Gardens for the day, Jeff and I went fishing with a guide on the river … courtesy of Mr. Pitts. I thoroughly enjoyed our morning "learning" what big Florida bass fishing was all about and spent the afternoon buzzing around in his dad’s boat on the river … even rescuing a dog and cutting my wrist (there is a story and a scar in that).
Years later, when Jeff was established in Ohio, Mr. Pitts stopped by our house for a visit and I could tell he was glad to see his son successful and with friends. For Jeff’s part, he could not have been a better son. Taking trips with his dad, loving to dad’s wife Thelma and always willing to visit for weekends. No regrets.
My deepest condolences to Neal, Conrad and my best friend Jeff.
On Monday, October 24, 2022, Alton G. Pitts, loving husband and father of three children, passed away peacefully in his sleep in his home having consumed a last meal of his favorite chocolate ice cream, just 20 days shy of his 96th birthday. On November 13, 1926 Alton was born to Henry C. and Mamie Powell Pitts, two school teachers who had met at North Florida Teacher’s College in Madison, Florida. Alton had three brothers, Henry C., Louis Martel, and Robert Allen, and two sisters, Mary Sue and Margy. On June 30, 1951, he married Helen Clever and they had three sons, Conrad, Neal, and Jeff. Alton is survived by his wife, Thelma Owen, three sons, six grandchildren, and six great-grandchildren.
